MAGNETISING LOVE AND RESPECT

Everyone is generally concerned about their relationships. We all do have one of those days that we feel like we are not being respected enough. Some people just have this weird thing that they do not deserve to have friends, perhaps because some kind of experience they have been through. The truth of the matter is that everyone yearns for love and respect. But before you even start thinking of your relationship with others, you must assess your relationship with yourself.

 Here are some tips to magnetising love and respect:

    Never let someone’s dislike for you, ever make you feel that you do not deserve love and respect. Everyone has met those kind of people who just want you to feel bad and talk to you anyhow. One thing that I have realised is that those people are not worth it.

      Do not shove people off. So far as the person has taken the time off to notice you and approach you, then you have to be nice and friendly towards him or her. When you do the opposite more often than not you lose any iota of respect that that person had for you. It so refreshing when someone comes to you and goes like,’ I thought that you were so unfriendly but I realised that that is so not true.'

      One of the greatest ways to attract love and respect is give the right realistic complements. A complement can go a long way to brighten up someone’s day. However, one of the greatest ways to lose love and respect is to constantly criticise people. No one enjoys being critiqued. Sometimes, you just have to overlook certain things.

    Don’t gossip about the people. You can never gossip about someone without hurting yourself. Besides,  gossip destroys your reputation. 

    Practice the golden rule: Do unto others what you want others to do unto you. 

    Finally as I said earlier, be your own best friend. The most important relationship you would ever have in your life is the relationship with yourself.

Respect is what we owe; and love, is what we give. - Philips James Bailey.

           Still smiling in the dream world...