BE WHO YOU ARE

How liberating is it to have a pep talk with yourself and finally define who you are! You will come to realise that there are so many things that people say and do that don't need your reaction. So take time to understand yourself and learn who you really are.

It is so easy to get into the trap of letting people define who you are; and this can happen subtly without your even realising it, especially if you try pleasing people. Pleasing people is intoxicating, letting critics dictate the course of your life is toxic.

It is beautiful to have manners and be all ladylike but you got to learn that sometimes you have to just fireback. It is not being mean, it is being assertive. Soon enough you see how those people change their behaviour towards you as the so called power they thought they had over you is deflated.

After knowing who you are, burn out any form of fear- fear of criticism, fear of judgement, you name them. Rather be led by your dreams and your belief in who you are.

Love always,
Liz.

Still smiling in the dream world...