LIVING THE DREAM LIFE

Living the dream life is about living the life that you desire, the life you are proud of, the life that's right for you. It is personal and you would have to define what entails a dream life for you. As young adults we must define our dream life and earnestly work hard towards it.
 Here are some tips to spur you on to living that life:

Strive to be independent

You must be able to stand alone, think and act for yourself. Living in the shadows of your friends or parents might not get you far in life. In making a career choice, do something that you are passionate about.

Take the necessary risks

Do the things you love in fear of the unknown that might happen. Just don’t save your money, make smart investments. If you do this, then you would never live your life thinking about what could have

happened if you had taken those risks.

Be in right relationships

If your partner is not helping you to bring out the star in you, kindly do not waste your time wallowing in pain. Cut him or her out of your life. Having a broken heart is part of life, do not waste all your time crying over that. Most importantly, cut off unhealthy friendships. If you and your friend party all night and day, without achieving anything substantial in your life, then you have to start taking the bold step. You see, birds of a feather flock together. More often than not, when you are stagnant in one point in your life, look at the people around you and you see the same things happening in their life. Thus, make friends with goal-oriented, success-driven individuals ready to make a difference in this world.

Keep track of your goals.

Do not let laziness manage your life. Lying in your couch or bed and watching the TV or films, would cause you to be stagnant in life. Constantly keep your goals in mind, work towards them while sacrificing some of the pleasures of life.

Stay healthy

You are the best shape of your life in your youth. Your body is fully develop and you can wear all those clothes, eat all the junk foods and fail to exercise, yet still be healthy. You would never know the harm that is causing you till you enter your forties. Truthfully,  health is prevention, not cure.

Die with memories but never your dreams. All the best in this journey  of life.


                        Still smiling in the dream world...

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MAGNETISING LOVE AND RESPECT

Everyone is generally concerned about their relationships. We all do have one of those days that we feel like we are not being respected enough. Some people just have this weird thing that they do not deserve to have friends, perhaps because some kind of experience they have been through. The truth of the matter is that everyone yearns for love and respect. But before you even start thinking of your relationship with others, you must assess your relationship with yourself.

 Here are some tips to magnetising love and respect:

    Never let someone’s dislike for you, ever make you feel that you do not deserve love and respect. Everyone has met those kind of people who just want you to feel bad and talk to you anyhow. One thing that I have realised is that those people are not worth it.

      Do not shove people off. So far as the person has taken the time off to notice you and approach you, then you have to be nice and friendly towards him or her. When you do the opposite more often than not you lose any iota of respect that that person had for you. It so refreshing when someone comes to you and goes like,’ I thought that you were so unfriendly but I realised that that is so not true.'

      One of the greatest ways to attract love and respect is give the right realistic complements. A complement can go a long way to brighten up someone’s day. However, one of the greatest ways to lose love and respect is to constantly criticise people. No one enjoys being critiqued. Sometimes, you just have to overlook certain things.

    Don’t gossip about the people. You can never gossip about someone without hurting yourself. Besides,  gossip destroys your reputation. 

    Practice the golden rule: Do unto others what you want others to do unto you. 

    Finally as I said earlier, be your own best friend. The most important relationship you would ever have in your life is the relationship with yourself.

Respect is what we owe; and love, is what we give. - Philips James Bailey.

           Still smiling in the dream world...