I was randomly searching for a dance movie when I chanced upon Dirty Dancing, a rare and mystical cosmic finding. Primarily, it's a coming-of-age story that revolves around Frances "Baby" Houseman, who goes on a summer vacation with her family at a resort and ends up falling in love with the charismatic dance instructor, Johnny Castle. The editing, cinematography, and sound were pure excellence, but what truly resonated was how it subtly touched on powerful themes of classicism, prejudice, and justice. And of course, there’s the Oscar-winning song, "(I've Had) The Time of My Life," which perfectly accompanies the phenomenal final choreography.
Beyond the iconic dance moves and the sizzling romance, the film is packed with powerful lessons that still hold true today. Here are seven of the most important takeaways from Dirty Dancing.
Tell the Truth
I am of the view that if Johnny hadn't taken responsibility for Penny's pregnancy, he would have had a better start with her father, Jake Houseman. In essence, don't blatantly shoulder another's burden when you aren't sure that they would do the same for you.
Believe in Yourself
You can do anything you put your mind to. Believing in yourself has to be innate and organic. Baby showed that trait the moment she committed to learning the Mambo.
Be Helpful
Who would have known that helping with the watermelons was going to open up a whole new world for Baby? Who would have known that volunteering to cover for Penny would lead to her learning some intricate dance moves?
Be Brave and Prepared
The film depicted the injustice to entertainers—where they are forced to stick to a particular formula because that has always been what worked. For Johnny, even though he was fired, he was brave enough to step on the stage to deliver the final dance he always did. Oo, the Johnny came prepared to slay. Even though Baby didn't have the heads up about Johnny's storming in, she was dressed to perfection.
Speak Up
Stand up for yourself and for others. As Frances Houseman so famously said, "Nobody puts Baby in a corner.” She was so willing to speak up in defense of Johnny as an alibi, knowing the possible consequences.
Practice Makes Perfect
In the beginning, Baby was such a terrible dancer, but after weeks of constant practice, she nailed the Mambo and gave us the climactic lift.
Be humble
It was so bold of Mr Houseman to admit his wrong into he end. Like they say, pride goes before a fall.
Still smiling in the dream world...
